๐โๅๆฐดๆๅ Eat some fruits!โ Understand your Taiwanese in-laws when visiting their home
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Every time I visit my parents' home in Taipei, the first thing they say is, "ๅไพๅฆ! ๅๆฐดๆๅ!" (Oh! You're home. Have some fruits!)
I'm so grateful for that; it feels like home. Even though I grew up with this, every time I go back to my parents' home, I'm still amazed by it. ( Now I live in France, I'm used to eating the entire apple, including the skin, with my hands.")
If you're visiting your Taiwanese in-laws home' or Taiwanese friends' home, make sure you understand this phrase and warm gesture:) All you need to do is nod your head and say "ๅฅฝ! ่ฌ่ฌ" (OK, thank you)" even though you don't feel like it... (็็ๆฑๆญ sorry)
And we'll keep repeating this sentence throughout the entire conversation -"ๅๆฐดๆๅ !" ๐
As mentioned in my Conversation Training Course, I talk about the importance of using various colorful ways to say hello and start small talk with Taiwanese people. Actually, this one, "ๅๆฐดๆๅ," is also a greeting phrase in Taiwan. Itโs also my new discovery in 2024, very important one!
I know many of you learn with me because you wish to speak Taiwanese Mandarin with your in-laws and loved one, so make sure you memorize this useful phrase!
โญ ๆๅๅฐ็ฅ่ญ Culture note โ In Taiwan, it's a longstanding tradition to cut fresh fruits as a thoughtful gesture for guests. This practice not only symbolizes hospitality but also emphasizes the importance of sharing joy and health with those we welcome into our homes. (YES! We love talking about how to be healthy and live a long life. Haha.)
่ฌ่ฌไฝ ๅ็ๅฐ้้ Thank you for reading this far :)
๐ฃ I created this Taiwanese Mandarin fluency workshop to help you speak with confidence. If your goal is to be able to converse with your Taiwanese in-laws or friends with confidence, do not hesitate to check it out. Itโs free.
With gratitude,
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